At 39 [中]

Mar 7, 2026

Today is my 39th birthday. Based on the average life expectancy of Chinese men, I’m already in the second half of life. My parents are alive and in good health. I have a warm family, and a lovely wife and son. I have a good home, and after covering the mortgage, I still have savings left.

But my physical condition is not very good. I have various minor health issues, and the biggest problem is anxiety. My inner world is not at peace, and I easily fall into anxiety. Even taking a nap is difficult — I sleep for a while, then wake up, and once I wake up, my whole body feels tight.

In the second half of life, I don’t want to keep living like this. Half of my time will go to my body and emotions; everything else comes after that.

Grateful for life. The second half will be better.